Most connected to adoption know that white mothers from the BSE (1947-1973) were shamed for being unwed and pregnant. That, community knowledge of the pregnancy brought shame down upon the entire family, and why, mothers were often sent away to maternity homes, or to relatives elsewhere, until after the birth and surrender of their baby for adoption.
Today, one of the oft touted reasons why adoption isn’t the same as that era, is because mothers aren’t shamed today.
Except, that shaming is still alive and well today…
No, just no, God does not ask you to sacrifice your child because you had sex before marriage that resulted in pregnancy. If he did, it would be in the Bible.