How could I not know I had that stereotype inside of me? How did that happen? I wasn’t raised that way, I didn’t think that way, consciously, that is. Yet, the stereotype was there, hidden under everything I’d always patted myself on the back about, and when I saw it, I felt overwhelming shame. Not just for the stereotype itself, but for not knowing it was part of who I was, and how easy it is to fool yourself. This post is embarrassing, but I also think that growth doesn’t happen in a vacuum, there has to be an awareness to change. So, I’m sharing with you in hopes of sparking conversations here or elsewhere. Read the rest of this entry »
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Lately, I’ve haven’t found anything related to adoption to talk about, which is interesting as I find the topic fascinating, the history, laws, stories of then and of now. I also see adoption and the adoption community as a microcosm of the larger community. In that context I do have something to talk about… Read the rest of this entry »
Many know I’ve been steeped in my past lately since mom passed, this blog became my sanctuary, my outlet. I thank everyone who hung in there, and also gave me grace. Now that life is returning to normal, I find myself thinking of both the good and not so good memories. Trying to decide if sharing the hard parts will help parents today dealing with their own hard parts of raising their adopted children who struggle mightily. On one hand, I think it could, on the hand, it would require opening up about the bad, the ugly. I’m leaning to sharing, but I’m not there yet. Today, I am going to share how inadvertently mom and dad taught us about race, race relations, different cultural practices, which will also tell you how old I am… Read the rest of this entry »
When we know better, we do better…
That saying relates to the progress made in many areas of adoption, and yes, it has happened.
So, why, can’t we apply that to race, attitudes, prejudices, biases, racism, that still exists everywhere? Read the rest of this entry »