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“Gotcha Day”

I’m used to the mishmash of terms used by some families who’ve adopted and celebrate the day.  It works for them, hopefully if they see it doesn’t work for their child they’ll stop.  Still detest the term “Gotcha Day” for many reasons that should be obvious.  Read the rest of this entry »

 
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Posted by on March 1, 2017 in Adoption, adoptive parents

 

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Search and reunion video presentation from an agency?

I saw the tweet below and had several different thoughts about Bethany holding a live video event about search and reunion. I’m always suspicious when an adoption agency wants to teach adoptees about search and reunion.  Always.

Perhaps things are changing and I need to give more grace.  Read the rest of this entry »

 
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Posted by on November 2, 2016 in Adoption, adoptive parents

 

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What should I do?

Asking for some outsider common sense advice to a conundrum I’m too close to.  I can’t say I’ll take it, but it will give me food for thought that might help. Read the rest of this entry »

 
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Posted by on September 13, 2016 in Adoption

 

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There’s an oft repeated saying in the adoption community…

When we know better, we do better…

That saying relates to the progress made in many areas of adoption, and yes, it has happened.

So, why, can’t we apply that to race, attitudes, prejudices, biases, racism, that still exists everywhere?  Read the rest of this entry »

 
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Posted by on July 7, 2016 in Adoption, adoptive parents

 

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Not puppets to be used for your cause

Despite that abortion is a pregnancy decision, and adoption is a parenting decision, it seems that in the minds of people, they are indelibly linked, intertwined, if you will.  The rhetoric keeps ramping up trying to make the one adopted, the poster child to stop abortion.  Just the mere thought sends chills down my spine, to be used for a cause, when you are still a child.  This post is about abortion… Read the rest of this entry »

 
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Posted by on August 22, 2015 in Adoption, adoptive parents

 

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Expectations of greater love…

Just read a blog post about how someone who isn’t adopted, but has always assumed, that if you are adopted – that the love you have for your adoptive parents is greater than the love that a non-adopted child would have for their mom and dad.  Reasons cited is that the child was chosen, money was paid, and sacrifices made.  I’m not linking to the post – but it was also a religious post musing about being adopted by God and comparing the two – which doesn’t work for me.

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Posted by on April 9, 2015 in Adoption, adoptive parents

 

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