Sometimes it is tiring to be an adult adoptee. Writing and rewriting words to form a response to query about being an adoptee, all in the hopes of not offending the PAPs or APs while trying to explain, yet again that yes is pain and loss for adoptees. Each experience will be different but there will be feelings that are different than what a bio goes through.
Seriously how many times can we describe our most intimate feelings on a subject we have lived our entire lives and still have it dismissed, negated, denied?
If it wasn’t for the fact that you are raising the next generation of adoptees we would not be going there. Instead there are other things we could be doing more of like living life to its fullest.